The world eagerly flaunts its misguided perception of love. Sitcoms feed gullible seekers a steady diet of unrealistic dreams and a list of demands to bring into their relationships. While the world relentlessly presents it’s weak and whimsical definition of love, we tend to miss the most important aspect behind true love. The vitality & power of love is not found so much in what Love does, but rather in what it does not do.
I Corinthians 13:1-8a
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love,
I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge,
and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned,
but have not love, I gain nothing.
4Love is patient and kind;
love does not envy or boast;
it is not arrogant 5 or rude.
It does not insist on its own way;
it is not irritable or resentful;
6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never ends.
I found it interesting that this famous section on love begins by listing a host of admirable, even desirable actions, abilities, and gifts followed by a shocking revelation. In the midst of suave, flowery, romantic speech and the ability to say and do all the right things, love can be glaringly absent.
You mean I can take a meal to a neighbor I secretly despise, or put a new roof on for a couple I care nothing about and it means nothing? I can tell my spouse everything is ok and even dish out a kiss or two yet despite all my actions and professions, love can be missing?
Yup, in the midst of all that pomp and clanking, there can remain an emptiness and void where love should dwell but isn’t. Doing doesn’t guarantee loving!
If you think the idea of love being absent in the midst of noble actions and sacrificial giving, a paradoxical concept, then read on! Next in the chapter comes a mind-boggling list of how love is powerfully demonstrated during “inaction.”
Love is demonstrated when envy is an exiled and unwelcome guest.
Love is present when a boasting heart is consumed upon the altar of humility and grace.
Love is the absence of arrogance.
Love raises its gracious head when rudeness bows in subjection to the feelings of others.
Love voices it’s true intention when it calls out passionately in constant purposeful yielding to the desires of others.
Love resides unshaken, faithfully pressing onward while riding out the never-ending swells of unpredictable human emotions, weakness, and reasoning.
Love removes itself from the presence of all actions, attitudes, and situations that would make it a bedfellow with the enemies of its soul.
Love has no finish line, no expiration date, and no exception clause.
Love is endless, abounding, and nonnegotiable.
Jesus had compassion on the crowds and preformed many signs and miracle. He healed, fed, taught, and rescued thousands but I think His greatest demonstration of Love came during those sacred moments of silence when he stood unshaken before his accusers and as he hung willingly upon the cross. Truly, only the God of the universe could have kept silent while those He created beat Him!
As a kid I played out how I would have handled the crucifixion. I would have popped off that cross, and showed the crowd who I really was. I would have struck the pharisees down with gruesome and painful diseases. I would have given that unbelieving pompous crowd gawking at my nakedness and shame a momentary glimpse of the Heavenly Host straining at the ready to exact judgment upon them. I would have preformed an amazing lightening show and topped it off by spinning Jupiter on my finger.
This is everything I would have done!
Yet Jesus did something mysteriously more powerful than any action. He demonstrated His love by doing nothing. He was led like a lamb to the slaughter and he never opened him mouth. He endured suffering silently without returning condemning upon His inflictors, when reviled He did not revile in return.
He demonstrated the depth and height of His love by silence and something even more unpredictable, death.
And herein lies the secret of love.
Love is death. It is quiet yielding and sacrifice. It is silence in the face of unjust accusation. It is willing brokenness for the sake of the broken and needy not the deserved. This is such a different image than the one hollywood hawks. Love is often absent in the getting, doing, giving, being, to busy to stop crowd, for any emotionless, selfish, warped, unloving, sick person can do these things.
This is Love
Greater love hath no man than this,
that a man lay down his life for his friends.
1 John 3:16
Hereby perceive we the love of God,
because he laid down his life for us:
and we ought to lay down our lives
for the brethren.
My prayer for you today my husband is a prayer for us both. My prayer is for love. Jesus love drove Him to the cross to be broken. Those precious, nail scarred hands now break us daily that we might also love. May the Lord fill our hearts with an understanding of His love for us, and may that precious gift flow from our own hearts as an unquenchable stream of love for others. May we lay down our lives together in these battles we fight together hand in hand. Let us be silent together, raising up feeble hands and weary knees yielded to His purpose and plan for our lives. May we die spiritually together each day and as we live to die, may we discover with more intensity and satisfaction than the day before, the joy that comes from sacrifice, the purpose that comes from pain, and the power that is unleashed through our weaknesses. Your path is mine David, your calling is my calling. Ours is a sacred dance, beauty displayed among chaos. I praise the Lord for the gift of you and for your Love. I praise the Lord for calling us to be his and for allowing us to run this race together. Amen
Reblogged this on BeEfElle and commented:
Such a beautiful message. Many times we forget the true meaning of love. With life in general and the many obstacles we face, it is easy to forget. This was such a touching and inspirational message to me, I wanted to share it. Be blessed, leave your feedback below!
Thank you for taking a moment to stop by! I am so grateful for your kind words and the link you provided. Many blessings to you!
Thank you for taking a moment to stop by! I am so grateful for your kinds words and the link you provided. Many blessings to you!
No problem! Thank you for the beautiful message!
Jody, you bless my heart so much with these. Have you considered putting them into a book form? I’m serious! Thank you so much for your honesty, love, and for sharing what God has laid on your heart. Love you girl!!!
Morning Becky. I can’t tell you how much your words of encouragement mean to me this morning. Nothing like being greeted with love by my forever family members who are near and dear to my heart!
Such powerful prose. It’s easy to get caught up in the doing but as you stated doing doesn’t equal love.
Balance is a challenge! So often It is so much easier to do than love. I can hide behind actions and look good in the process. Thank you for stopping by Wanda! Blessings to you today!
Thank you for stopping by and for the Ping! I enjoyed your article on prayer. Blessings to you!